I know nothing will change your decision to go to Johns now, but you should be aware of a few things that are relevant everywhere.shes_jinxed said:thats not the reason its just one of the factors i did take into consideration when i was looking at all the colleges, i dont want to have friends in the year above me treating me as their slave, and i dont want to go into college with connections there because ill never move outside my comfort zone and one of the major reasons that im going is to make new friends and have new experiences etc...
if i didnt have friends at drews then sure i would proably apply but i do and thats how it is, Johns looks like an awersome college and definatly my choice
Firstly, like you i thought college would put me outside a comfort zone. However I have found that like just about everyone else, college is just about the cushiest position you will ever have in your life, including living with the oldies.
Second, unlike high school where you enter at the lowest rung and work your way up. the opposite is true in college. In your fresher year, while you may have to do ocassionally shitty jobs and go through tough initiations (i personally got drilled during Zulu), all the seniors will want to get to know you and you'll generally be the bigggest partiers. I won't even mention thebenefits that being a good sportsmen are like.
So you wouldn't ever have to worry about being your friends slave. Your friends could actually serve as a bridge to being better friends with the sophmores.