JKDDragon said:
It doesn't make them any less of a cheater, which is what you said. But the difference is I'm advocating NOT cheating at all, you know? You're basically saying 'well you might aswell cheat since you'd do it after breaking up anyway'.
no, a cheater is a cheater they cant be any less. what i said is that if you are one who is inclined to break up with your partner and then bang other people, then return to relationship[ i.e a scumbag cheater] then why bother with all the hassle? why not either break up with them for good, or cheat on them... i say just cheat on them, because obviouslly thats what you wanted to do, have sex with someone outside of the relationship and yet continue the relationship. dont try and hide behind false morals and imagined technicalities... you are a CHEATER no ifs, buts or "we were on a break"s you cheated, plain and simple. man that excuse is almost as bad as " but i was drunk honey!" people inclines to fuck others whilst in a relationship are always going to find ways to do it.
atleast be honest to yourself when you do cheat , dont dilude yourself that breaking up with your partner makes it alright because it doesnt.