Single.. Who has never had a Girlfriend/boyfriend? (3 Viewers)

[Rekkusu]

Yeah same here strangely. never had gf. Guess I was like the op, sort of failing at reading signs and making the moves.

Worst thing is, how do you make the move on someone you've never worked or talked to in a lecture or tutorial. Guess it makes it harder in that I'm post-grad atm. The only chicks who are normal are the ones working in hospitals, or on placement etc.

 

[Lolsmith]

Yeah same here strangely. never had gf. Guess I was like the op, sort of failing at reading signs and making the moves.

Worst thing is, how do you make the move on someone you've never worked or talked to in a lecture or tutorial. Guess it makes it harder in that I'm post-grad atm. The only chicks who are normal are the ones working in hospitals, or on placement etc.

You joined this site when I was 12 years old

 

[MrFox]

Yeah same here strangely. never had gf. Guess I was like the op, sort of failing at reading signs and making the moves.

Worst thing is, how do you make the move on someone you've never worked or talked to in a lecture or tutorial. Guess it makes it harder in that I'm post-grad atm. The only chicks who are normal are the ones working in hospitals, or on placement etc.

there are girls in places outside of uni and work you know. get out there boy

 

[Dedication_]

i think i just have high (almost unreachable) standards. But to add to that, i'm kinda odd in that i'd expect a girl to make the first move and ask me out... i guess no girl has ever been interested lol.

This sums up, my whole life. You rock, goodbye.

 

[360]

This sums up, my whole life. You rock, goodbye.

I think the OP answered his own question. In my experience women very rarely approach men. If women are interested they normally just wait for a circumstance where they have to do a minimal amount of work to get you to notice them, or not at all and let the opportunity pass by. Some are old-fashioned and conservative like that. Which is why you'll only ever know if you are confident and go up to them first. It's extremely difficult at first but gets easier as you get older especially when alcohol is involved.

There are rare cases where a women approaches a man first, such as the case with my first girlfriend. By no coincidence she was older and of course more experienced than I was.

 

[Dedication_]

I think the OP answered his own question. In my experience women very rarely approach men. If women are interested they normally just wait for a circumstance where they have to do a minimal amount of work to get you to notice them, or not at all and let the opportunity pass by. Some are old-fashioned and conservative like that. Which is why you'll only ever know if you are confident and go up to them first. It's extremely difficult at first but gets easier as you get older especially when alcohol is involved.

There are rare cases where a women approaches a man first, such as the case with my first girlfriend. By no coincidence she was older and of course more experienced than I was.

Fair call, but I don't get upset by being single. I just thrive to better myself until a female does approach me or take notice.

 

[Shadowdude]

Fair call, but I don't get upset by being single. I just thrive to better myself until a female does approach me or take notice.

have fun waiting forever

 

[Eg155]

Fair call, but I don't get upset by being single. I just thrive to better myself until a female does approach me or take notice.

You do know women wait for guys to approach them first. Despite trying to break convention this is generally our mentality.
Make the first move.

 

[Dedication_]

You do know women wait for guys to approach them first. Despite trying to break convention this is generally our mentality.
Make the first move.

I know this completely, I'm not socially retarded I just don't generally comply to the social norms of relationships. I can talk to girls fine, I just think it's rather odd that the male has to make 99% of the effort, not to mention a majority of girls make it somewhat difficult to pick up on signs that show their interested.

 

[kfnmpah]

lol this thread

 

[Dr_Fresh]

lol this thread

sum peeple dont have time for relationships

 

[Trebla]

People are single either by choice or by circumstance

 

[3PiCFail]

18 never had a girlfriend...
but I'm Christian and beliefs I carry are don't get a girlfriend unless your mature enough...
so i guess it'll be a long time...

 

[OzKo]

18 never had a girlfriend...
but I'm Christian and beliefs I carry are don't get a girlfriend unless your mature enough...
so i guess it'll be a long time...

How do you know when you're ready?

 

[Lolsmith]

lol this thread

 

[Riproot]

I'm just so lonely.

 

[MUSE13]

Gender: Female


not your type, bro

hahahahah shadow dude this made my day hahahahah

 

[MUSE13]

=( awww
the reason why i've never had a boyfriend is that, it's just it i have such high expectations plus i have this philosophy where i won't date a guy who's smarter then me or is of an higher status.... is that weird or what?
forever alone lool =p

 

[Shadowdude]

so you like dumb guys


~that'll end well~

 

[MUSE13]

so you like dumb guys


~that'll end well~

lol good point =P lool well no well no they have to have some degree of intelligence ....but i'd just feel degraded if their were smarter then me ... aww gosh i must sound arrogant as heck