flipsyde
Shutup!...that's why
I tell my BF everything, and I've never lied to him. The only thing I was scared of telling him was when we'd been going out for just a month, I was at a friends house (a guy friend) and there was about 8 of us drinking. I was supposed to sleep on the couch, but one of the guys passed out on the couch. I HAVE to sleep on some kind of mattress because I have a bad spine.
Anyway as it worked out the only bed left was my friends bed and he was sorta passed out in it so I slept in it with him. I know I shouldn't have but I was really tired and didn't have much of a choice. Nothing went on, my friend also had a girl he was interested in, so he wasn't about to go try anything with me.
I told my bf straight up the next day, because I believe that if you hide it it just makes it worse when it comes out, even if the thing isn't that big of a deal. He was fine with it, a bit edgy (as you would be), but he understood and trusted me. My friend was like my brother, he knew that.
So yeah thats about the worst thing I've had to confess to my bf. The worst thing my BF had to confess to me was that he kissed another girl, it was a friend of his. The problem was the kiss was on the lips. It was a friendship kiss, only a peck. Although in my head I was a bit like "grrrr". I understood that it was a friendship thing and I explained that I'd rather he didnt do that. He hasnt done it again.
I trust that he hasn't. The fact thathe came clean, and hes always been truthful, allows me to believe that.
Anyway as it worked out the only bed left was my friends bed and he was sorta passed out in it so I slept in it with him. I know I shouldn't have but I was really tired and didn't have much of a choice. Nothing went on, my friend also had a girl he was interested in, so he wasn't about to go try anything with me.
I told my bf straight up the next day, because I believe that if you hide it it just makes it worse when it comes out, even if the thing isn't that big of a deal. He was fine with it, a bit edgy (as you would be), but he understood and trusted me. My friend was like my brother, he knew that.
So yeah thats about the worst thing I've had to confess to my bf. The worst thing my BF had to confess to me was that he kissed another girl, it was a friend of his. The problem was the kiss was on the lips. It was a friendship kiss, only a peck. Although in my head I was a bit like "grrrr". I understood that it was a friendship thing and I explained that I'd rather he didnt do that. He hasnt done it again.
I trust that he hasn't. The fact thathe came clean, and hes always been truthful, allows me to believe that.
