Staying a virgin until marriage (guys) (1 Viewer)

[thrillkiller]

because whinging is an opinion. they are clearly opposing your views.

no they are trying to change them

 

[thrillkiller]

im just sayin its super dumb to dump someone who you've been going so well with because you find out they arent a virgin lol

how many times do i have to say it

 

[Mature Lamb]

no they are trying to change them

i've read every post since the beginning. they're not trying to change them. you only think that because the majority have a different view to you.

they just think your view is stupid. same if i was discussing this same question with a group of devout christians. they will think my view is stupid (and they will probably stone me to death)

 

[meilz92]

no more please god no more

And when you say 'prefer my future partner to be one', to be honest - in your previous posts, it seemed to tend to "they must be one".

 

[Shadowdude]

yeah your conditions for a girl arent that common either m8.

My actual conditions for a girl are much lower than you think. In the end, a decent girl who's nice to me and can accept who I am will suit me fine.

She doesn't have to be a super model or be super smart or have the specific brown hair, dark brown eyes and pale skin or whatever it was I wrote... all that is fantasy or the ideal scenario.

 

[IamBread]

i've read every post since the beginning. they're not trying to change them. you only think that because the majority have a different view to you.

they just think your view is stupid. same if i was discussing this same question with a group of devout christians. they will think my view is stupid (and they will probably stone me to death)

hahahaha dem stonez

 

[thrillkiller]

i've read every post since the beginning. they're not trying to change them. you only think that because the majority have a different view to you.

they just think your view is stupid. same if i was discussing this same question with a group of devout christians. they will think my view is stupid (and they will probably stone me to death)

Well it seems like it to me because they keep questioning me and giving me different scenarios and telling me how my chances of finding what i want are like 00.01%

 

[twistedrebel]

im just sayin its super dumb to dump someone who you've been going so well with because you find out they arent a virgin lol

yeah everyone has moral standing. If you cant find that comfortable nothing wrong with breaking up.

What if you find out you were dating someone, and is war criminal/extremist, your going to stay with them?

 

[Phoenix Fury]

This discussion has stopped going places and the likelihood of it going anywhere now is minimal so maybe everyone should just drop it

chances are it's just a troll anyway lol

 

[meilz92]

yeah everyone has moral standing. If you cant find that comfortable nothing wrong with breaking up.

What if you find out you were dating someone, and is war criminal/extremist, your going to stay with them?

lol no because my safety is at risk

everyone has standards, including myself, but it would be a lot more rational to have some flexibility in those standards instead of being like "oh no you slept with your ex girlfriend of 5 years, i love you but i have to dump you now"

 

[meilz92]

This discussion has stopped going places and the likelihood of it going anywhere now is minimal so maybe everyone should just drop it

chances are it's just a troll anyway lol

yeah this i give up man

 

[thrillkiller]

This discussion has stopped going places and the likelihood of it going anywhere now is minimal so maybe everyone should just drop it

chances are it's just a troll anyway lol

Wow have you never encountered someone who wasnt brainwashed by the media or society that you think i must be trolling?

 

[Mature Lamb]

Well it seems like it to me because they keep questioning me and giving me different scenarios and telling me how my chances of finding what i want are like 00.01%

their opinion. not fact.

anyways i'm not gonna "try and convert you" because i guarantee there is a great chance your views will change as you grow older, become more independent, hang around different people, etc.

 

[Shadowdude]

Well it seems like it to me because they keep questioning me and giving me different scenarios and telling me how my chances of finding what i want are like 00.01%

Just trying to be honest. Better than 'yes of course you'll find someone' and then... the reality is that that's wrong.

 

[twistedrebel]

lol no because my safety is at risk

its a moral standing. If you find you believe someone conflicts something you believe in, its usually better to break it off or the marriage is going to end.

 

[thrillkiller]

i think you all need to open your minds and not be so shocked when someone presents you with a different opinion than 'the majority'

 

[IamBread]

Wow have you never encountered someone who wasnt brainwashed by the media or society that you think i must be trolling?

Lololololol brainwashed by media and society? I don't think we're the ones who are brainwashed...

 

[Mature Lamb]

i think everyone's been brainwashed by the internets into thinking anyone who says anything absurd is a troll

townie infracted me because he thought i was trolling when i offered a price to someone selling their second hand macbook pro

 

[Phoenix Fury]

Wow have you never encountered someone who wasnt brainwashed by the media or society that you think i must be trolling?

I just know the internet. Even if it is your actual stance, you're making yourself out to be a victim of people trying to force their views on you when in reality they are just trying to understand them better.


Actually anyone who talks about media and societal brainwashing is confirmed troll.

 

[meilz92]

anyways i'm not gonna "try and convert you" because i guarantee there is a great chance your views will change as you grow older, become more independent, hang around different people, etc.

yes definitely. i was just like her a few years ago, no sex before marriage and wouldnt accept a non virgin boyfriend, but ive realised thats an extremely irrational standard to have considering todays society, and ive learned to become more flexible with my standards.