Clearly, abortions are not enjoyable or good things - but that isn't the point of the 'debate'. Some people seem to be suggesting that simply because women have the right to decide whether or not they're ready and capable to bring life into the world, that they will then revel in some new-found feminine power that lets them "kill" fetuses. This is not the point of abortion, or of the debate. Rather, abortion allows people to fully consider whether bringing life into the world is a 'sensible' thing to do given individual circumstances.
Unwanted pregnancies occur, there's nothing we can do about that. Through abortion, however, we can insure that unwanted births do not happen - something far more serious. Again, I'm not suggesting (and hopefully nobody does) that abortions are pleasant. But they are more 'pleasant' than forcing a single woman, or a couple, to parent an unwanted child who they do not have the capacity to care for.