HotShot
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i will tell you whats realistic - having sex is the for purpose of reproduction. Now thats being realistic. I cant understand that you willing to take a risk but your not willing to suffer the consequences? You will be surprise - if you make a decision to have sex on the spot -you will be surprised how women will make the decision on the spot to have anabortion.dagwoman said:So you're saying if you're not prepared to raise a child, be celibate? Sorry, but that's just not realistic. If that was realistic, there would be a hell of a lot less sex. Accidents aren't anyone's fault- that's why they're accidents. Condoms break, pills fail. Even in the case where a pregnancy is due to "negligence" e.g. not using a condom, the woman should still have the right to have an abortion, and not have to be forced to deal with "the consequences" by raising a child.
People who go to have abortions don't simply do so because they don't "feel like" having a baby, as you've implied. An abortion is a serious, irreversable decision that no one makes flippantly. I don't think anyone would be able to make such a decision flippantly, and if someone was able to, they certainly shouldn't be responsible for raising a child.
While I don't necessarily agree with it, I'm more able to understand your point of having safe, legal abortions, but enforcing some further requirements. However, the reality is that there are already serious requirements. In reality, the only reason women in NSW are able to have abortions are due to a technicality in the law, which states that abortion is illegal except in the case of "any economic, social or medical ground or reason upon which a doctor could base an honest and reasonable belief that an abortion was required to avoid a serious danger to the pregnant woman's life or to her physical or mental health."
The following is an outline of abortion laws in NSW:
http://www.fpahealth.org.au/sex-matters/factsheets/63.html
My main worry here is - I dont want women having abortion because they can. They should only under extreme circumstances. I dont believe they have the full rights to have an abortion - they 50% right and their partner has the other 50% - u might think the baby is in the women's womb - buts it partners sperm that contributed to that. Its bit like investing in shares 50% each and then the women gets it all just because she manages it? - she might get a little more - but not much.