time between relationships (merged) (1 Viewer)

[RhiG]

?how long bewteen people?

my friend and i were trying to figure out the "accepted" amount of time to be single for until you get into another relationship..any views?

 

[**Temptation**]

Well i think if u have another "boyfriend" before 2 or 3 weeks, i dunt think the new relationship will work...but yah i wuld also like to kno wat others think

 

[im an idiot]

the accepted amount of time? the amount of time it takes to find someone

 

[thejosiekiller]

its all subjective on how long it takes for you to get over someone and be in the mood to meet someone new

u cant define a set period of time because its different for diff ppl

 

[GlobalOperation]

as long as it takes to get over the old one. could be 2days or even 2 years...

 

[Trippendicular]

About 2 minutes generally

 

[Raiks]

at least one trip to the bar for a round of drinks... I'd consider that the minimum.

 

[Jago]

Asap .

 

[brad108]

It was stated on "Sex and the City" that you should wait half the amount of time that you were with the person. EG. If you were with a person for a year, it should take you 6 months to get over them.

I think this rule only applies to short term r/ls Imagine a couple that had been together for 20 years. Screw waiting 10 years

 

[SashatheMan]

what u do is , get a second relationship and then break off the old one, so its a continuation. the same way u go from job to job

 

[pinkblinkbarbie]

as long as it takes to get over the old one. could be 2days or even 2 years...

i agree. i broke up with one guy on a friday, the next wednesday i had a new boyfriend. that was because i was over my ex about 3 weeks before i broke up with him though, so i knew that i was ready for another relationship.
so id say that its as long as it takes for you to get over your ex and until you find someone new and suitable

 

[RingerINC]

my friend and i were trying to figure out the "accepted" amount of time to be single for until you get into another relationship..any views?

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[ogmzergrush]

It was stated on "Sex and the City" that you should wait half the amount of time that you were with the person. EG. If you were with a person for a year, it should take you 6 months to get over them.

I think this rule only applies to short term r/ls Imagine a couple that had been together for 20 years. Screw waiting 10 years

I think "rules" from Sex and the City only apply if you're an idiot

In relation to the thread, I guess it just depends on however long you feel comfortable with taking to move on. It'll differ depending on circumstance, your own feelings about it, etc.

 

[champ_sammy_19]

meh.... I guess its up to the individual, I mean I was with my ex for nearly two years and I've been single for about a yr and 2 months so yeah its up to the individual on when they want to enter a new relationship

For me I'm just happy with being single.

 

[denise_]

i think a reasonable time is half the duration of the time u guys went out lyk if u guys went out for 6 months and break up 3 months is plenty of time.. but screw the time.. if you really really think the next guy if totally mr perfect then.. go for it =)

 

[Ghost1788]

Question what do you ppl think of ppl who start another relationship almost as soon as they broke one off.

eg/ one of my friends she dated this guy for 6mths then afta they broke up it was 2 wks b4 she was dating again and soon afta she broke up with the new guy and it kept goin for a few more guys the weird thing is all the guys were friends of the first one.. I asked her why cant she just stay single but she says she needs someone to love...in my opinion it is she who needs to be loved. . .

So yeah what would you think of ppl who keep enter and leave relationships very quickly

 

[tammer]

its all subjective on how long it takes for you to get over someone and be in the mood to meet someone new

u cant define a set period of time because its different for diff ppl

agreed. it's too soon if you are comparing them to the ex..

 

[aimstar555]

how long till next time...??

so....how long should you wait till u start dating someone else post-breakup?? just broke up with my bf, after 18 months

 

[hipsta_jess]

Please search before posting (or, at the very least scroll down the page)
http://www.boredofstudies.org/community/showthread.php?t=66706

 

[JRPeck]

how long till next time...??

As long as it takes to work through the grieving process. Aimstar, share your pain with people you trust. Find healing on the other side of your tears. Write songs during this time and sing your heart out. Love yourself through the process.
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