what do u do when the one u like, likes someone else? (1 Viewer)

[Loz#1]

Originally posted by crazyhomo
phew, i was worried for a moment that no one was going to make a relationship thread today. crisis averted

God forbid.

 

[Winston]

i would... ummm avoid them... and get over them.

 

[Malazn Pleasure]

Originally posted by comfortable
do u...
a) avoid them and hope that the feeling passes
b) spend more time with them, in the hope that they will "come to there senses"

also consider...if they have liked u in the past but u rejected them flat out, could their feelings for u resurface? or because uve rejected them (more than once) their over u forever?

hypothetically of course

move on and dont b gay

 

[sugaryblue]

Originally posted by Malazn Pleasure
move on and dont b gay

but be gay in a happy way

 

[Winston]

Originally posted by Malazn Pleasure
move on and dont b gay

fuck it was hard to move on for me, when i saw her every frekin day!

 

[Persephone87]

Originally posted by SpoRTsGaL
er... i guess you tell them how you feel...

or just always stick by them, be best friends with them, kinda let them know how you feel.. then go away for a few days, they'll feel lonely and lost without you, then you'll come back, and you'll find out that they have broken up with their partner and they want you baad. Wow, that is so television-ish.

If only that really happened: more likely they'll think it will be a bettter opportunity to suck face.

 

[super katie]

get over it. Even if they do decide they want you theyre only going to change their mind a few months later and decide they made a mistake and didnt really want you at all. Fuck i'm bitter.

 

[Navjeet]

just take it easy and try to suss out exactly how much they like that other person. If they only sorta like them, then go for it..make a move. But if they like that person a lot, let them go for a bit, and with some luck (on your behalf anyway) they'll break up and leave him/her free for you.

Originally posted by Tommy_Lamp
(excuse the use of the lame phrase)

heres another lame phrase to keep in mind:
If you love something, let it go. If it doesnt come back, it was never yours in the first place.

 

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the bigger deal u make out from it, the harder it is for u to overcome it

 

[Malazn Pleasure]

Originally posted by sugaryblue
but be gay in a happy way

well u can b gay in a happy way but if really want to get over u should b gay in a gay way

 

[Winston]

Originally posted by ...
the bigger deal u make out from it, the harder it is for u to overcome it

Yeah i gotta agree, i've learnt my lesson

 

[ameh]

hit them over the head with a baseball bat....its a tough love technique

 

[Jimmy_C]

What ever happened to a good old fashioned kicking in the balls?
lol

Just sit down and think of what they've got that you dont, stroking a beard usually helps whilst doing this.... Then work on it, and get a badass revenge technique to make *this* their weakness

 

[MoNNiE]

Originally posted by Persephone87
Make eye sex

shit~! i do that all the time!

 

[iambored]

edit

 

[~*HSC 4 life*~]

im in the same situation, except probably worse...i like my friends boyfriend :/

 

[sugaryblue]

Originally posted by Malazn Pleasure
well u can b gay in a happy way but if really want to get over u should b gay in a gay way

oh well

more effective still: a gay gay way

 

[iambored]

Originally posted by ~*HSC 4 life*~
im in the same situation, except probably worse...i like my friends boyfriend :/

that has to be against the rules, you can't let it happen!

 

[~*HSC 4 life*~]

Originally posted by iambored
that has to be against the rules, you can't let it happen!

i know, i can't do anything with him, he's a no-go zone but i like him so much! but...i have to hold back!

argh i swear, worst situation ever

 

[hipsta_jess]

Originally posted by Persephone87
Make eye sex

what the hell is eye sex?

Originally posted by Tommy_Lamp
if ur not friends and its just someone u see around, make a move, if they dont want to go with you then no harm comes to you or them..theres plenty of fish in the sea (excuse the use of the lame phrase)

what if its someone you dont know know, but someone in a slightly authoritarian position that you have to be locked in a room with every week for 3 hrs?
hahahahahahaha