What to do when you're broken hearted? (1 Viewer)

[hbk_ace]

man, in the end, u get some one u deserve

 

[Shuter]

Why is it a bad idea? I'm sure he's mature enough to maintain a friendship with the girl even if its nothing more than that.

Rubbish, excommunicating is an excellent idea.

No trust me, listen to some depressing music, you know whatever the hell, get it all out, be sad for a week or whatever, but then completely change you, your scene, your attitude, and stay with friends and keep busy. Anytime you start to think of her or remember immdiatly stop it, stop it dead and think of something else, pretend she doesn't exist.

Eventually you will form a bitter and cynical attitude towards women which will serve you well for the next few years until you actually meet someone who is right, not just someone you thought was right.

 

[iambored]

good on you auto wah, you're handling this very well and maturely

 

[flipsyde]

I would eat food, watch DVDs, write an angry poem or song ( I write songs/ poetry) call a friend, get druunk
then go to sleep...

 

[hbk_ace]

haha i like the angry poem bit, thats all i do

 

[Auto Wah]

good on you auto wah, you're handling this very well and maturely

haha, i just wanna say thanks to you, your effort to help me will not be forgotten. I have to say, most of the things you've mentioned are really useful to me because i think you understood the situation really well. It's nice to have someone that understands your problems and willing to help you with it. Sometimes even my close friends can't help me with those problems that i have.

i'm more than grateful for what you've done

 

[iambored]

haha, i just wanna say thanks to you, your effort to help me will not be forgotten. I have to say, most of the things you've mentioned are really useful to me because i think you understood the situation really well. It's nice to have someone that understands your problems and willing to help you with it. Sometimes even my close friends can't help me with those problems that i have.

i'm more than grateful for what you've done

aw, thanks for that! that's really nice, it means a lot, glad i could help!

 

[Malazn Pleasure]

i feel you buddy.
i have a solution. meet lots of new people.

WRONG!!

coz ur not over that person so all u do is think of them wen ur 'meeting new ppl'

then u miss them more n feel worse

 

[llamalope]

eat chocolate, cry, break something (thats not too valuable), then put away all of the guy's photos and stuff he gave you until you can look at them without feeling upset. Eventually the pain will go away

 

[wasted_emotions]

listen to punk rock, get your mind off it, punk lyrics will remind u of it but it puts it in a new concept... which is a good thing i spose... i duno i hate love... always fucks up for me

 

[Arvin Sloane]

Don't ever get in a situation where your emotional well-being is dependent on another person/thing/bottle of cognac. You’re a weak-minded person if you do.

 

[kag86]

My ex and I broke up the night before my 18th birthday at about 11:30 pm or so... I spent that night n my birthday crying even though i thought it was time our relationship ended.... We were going out for almost like 8 months and we had never had any problems til the last 2 weeks... then it was over and i couldn't feel anything. I was numb and empty... now when we talk it's like i'm talking to a stranger who is constantly trying to make me jealous and I've realised all the pain wasn't worth it, I didn't even celebrate my birthday (huge regret). I wasted months feeling like crap and isolating myself... even turning down great opportunities because i was too scared i would get hurt again... Now it's all good. You'll find most ppl think about their ex's from time to time, at least now when i do it doesn't hurt anymore... I just think "yeah ok it was good but there's better out there." We shared some good times and i thought i was soooo in love but i know that i'm moving onto something great.... I thought we'd have to atleast stay friends... I think at that time and up until now we both still needed each other... not anymore!!!

 

[iambored]

Don't ever get in a situation where your emotional well-being is dependent on another person/thing/bottle of cognac. You’re a weak-minded person if you do.

very wise advice. i think it can be hard to do but you do always have to keep independent.

 

[~*HSC 4 life*~]

i haven't read the thread but i always just try to keep in mind that "time heals all wounds"

 

[withoutaface]

There is no quick fix solution unfortunately, just wait.

 

[f e a r l e s s]

talk to someone about it
thank the lord it happened cos its for the better
and get over it
cos i know that i dont lose this person forever, in fact, i never lost him in the first place.

theres heaps of males out there who could be the one for you and us and me and every female...

 

[housah0lic]

lol skimming through this thread makes me feel really bad