i dont agree with the 'ladder theory' at all. its a bunch of bullshit. there is no way in the world that people can sum up how relationships work or why people fall for each other and which sort of people fall for each other. it can all be proven wrong by different people so there is no point even considering it.
hot girls DO not go for jerks.....ok well um im told im hot, and my boyfriend isnt a jerk, and no one thinks so. my best friend is very hot, her boyfriend is amazing. i know a lot of hot girls with really nice boyfriends, and hot girls with boyfriends who I think are jerks...but thats only my opinion, and even if other people do agree with, its not our decision on who our friends date, and who other girls date. and everyone has different ideas on what is a hot female and what is isnt. a guy may find a girl wieghing 115kg with rolls everywhere attractive. so this once again is just sterotyping by fucked up individuals who are so sad and pathtic they find the need to stereotype people in hope of finding an answer for their secret crushes etc.
i bet the guy who wrote this thread is in love with a hot chick and he thinks her boyfriend is a jerk. get over it.