Why Does a Man Have To Pay For Women? (1 Viewer)

[LaZy_KoReAn]

Why is there a theory that man should pay for woman?

What if the man is in a strict financial position such as he lives away from home and lives on a tight budget and the man can't afford things for the woman not even small things only on a rare basis does that mean the man cannot date a woman?

Sure, they can BUT mostly not this is how i feel.


So who pays for most of your dates guys/ladies??

Would you look like a cheapskate if a man does not pay for woman's expenses? Some man says this is wuss behaviour paying for woman most say no is expected.

How does a man get to date a woman on a dutch basis?

 

[B l e h.]

coz the chic pays for the Wedding ^.^

 

[_muse_]

i dont think that guys have to pay for the woman nowadays... ive offered to pay many-a-time wheni go out with a guy... it's still a very acceptable thing but i think that anyone of the two can pay

 

[B l e h.]

But if you go out on a first date with your new bf would you be expecting him to pay or be offended or think less of him if he didnt offer/pay for you ?

 

[ichig0]

i wouldn't EXPECT him to pay for me but if he does pay for dinner or something, then i'll automatically shout him movie or drinks afterwards.

 

[dark`secrets]

personally i dont get any guys to pay for me.
it doesnt feel right

 

[neeja]

doesnt matter who pays

if the one of you doesnt have enough money...then the couple in question could go on a free/inexpensive date.

not everything is about money!

 

[Tommy_Lamp]

i personally would pay as much as often as possible when i was out with a gf, with close friends i still pay most of the time when we go eat something but generally i split with friends

 

[_muse_]

agreed. regardless of whether it was a first date or not i dont think that anyone is EXPECTED to pay it just happens. i wouldnt think any less of the guy if he couldnt afford it

 

[Auto Wah]

i think it will be only fair that the richest on of the two pays.

It works not only with girls/boys in a relationship. also with friends. Richest always have to pay and pay and pay and pay.
Sucked in to rich people.

 

[elite_joe]

last few relationships iv been iv payed for everything, dates even when she hug out with her friends, and i didnt mind, tho i did spend alot of money ichig0 said "
i wouldn't EXPECT him to pay for me but if he does pay for dinner or something, then i'll automatically shout him movie or drinks afterwards. "
that neva happened with me

 

[ichig0]

last few relationships iv been iv payed for everything, dates even when she hug out with her friends, and i didnt mind, tho i did spend alot of money ichig0 said "
i wouldn't EXPECT him to pay for me but if he does pay for dinner or something, then i'll automatically shout him movie or drinks afterwards. "
that neva happened with me

haha... well you have different people out there with different personalities ^^; but i personally would shout him in return... i just feel that's the right thing to do.

 

[LoUiE SmOoiE]

its the old fashioned way..its been around for centuries...its just the polite and appropriate thing to do...but if he cant pay coz of finacial problems than he cant pay!!

 

[elite_joe]

i could pay, but you know- she could of been nice enough to say hey u know what! ill get this one, you got the last one!

 

[AsyLum]

id pay for the gal, just call me old fashioned.

 

[Tommy_Lamp]

i dont think ill ever stop paying, too ingrained in me

EDIT: oo, 400th

 

[jhakka]

Me and my girlfriend usually go halves.

 

[Winston]

id pay for the gal, just call me old fashioned.

yeah same...

 

[Will_Sparky]

Its just a "traditional" idea. Femisism means that we don't HAVE to do it anymore

With me however, I usually do, when I go out somewhere (like to eat) i always chuck money in, always more than what i eat, but yeah. When i've got the cash i shout everyone.

 

[Toodulu]

erm we each pay for ourselves. if i pay for something he gives me his bit back straight away. if he offered to pay for something i would probably say that it's okay but i've never been given the opportunity to decline haha. i would way rather take turns paying for things though cos it all seems so calculated otherwise.
it's not the money, it's just a nice gesture.. like i'm sure after you go out for a while it'll even out. you can't expect one person to pay for everything all the time, most of us have limited finances.