Yarg said:
whats with you girls, you almost always go for the guys who are arseholes, or who have a complete disregard for a womans feelings or interests. Then when there is a nice guy sitting right in front of you, you pass him off. wtf is up with that. Open your eyes. Then you get hurt by a crapload of shitehouse relationships with total tossers, and you are afraid of starting up a new relationship because you dont want to get hurt. ffs, im tired of it. Any comments?
*rolls eyes* you're just bitter. get over it. your ramblings are obviously a result of your inability to treat a girl the way she should be treated, which has resulted in rejection. and that treatment differs with each girl. and it's how you should treat her, judged by her. so, if you 'think' you're treating her well, she may not necessarily think that. and then the whole complication starts about you not knowing her well enough to be able to tell what or how she dis/likes things. am i making sense?
also, you're generalising things way too much. 'almost always' is too exaggerated. have you got statistics to go with that? just because you know girls who are like that, it doesn't represent the rest of the female population. if it was 'almost always' true, then what of the typical nerds/geeks? will they never score a girl and marry? i don't think so... so many go on to live happily ever after. i doubt they pretended to be assholes so they could score. therefore, girls do not 'almost always' go for the asshole guys. *[assuming that your asshole definition is the typical biker or hard rocker dude or stuck up popular dude. if it isn't, and it included nerds and geeks, then why not include the rest of the classification of guys. which then means that the typical 'nice guy' is now also an asshole]
just because you think he's an asshole does not mean that we think he is an asshole, nor does it mean he is one. for example, if i say i think you're an asshole, would you say you were? would your friends say you were? and even if you are, you're an asshole by whose standards? there's no univeral standard for measurement of this, and so different people will place different ratings of 'assholeness'.
although you may very well be a nice guy, maybe the girl only thinks of you as a friend or brother she never had? if the attraction is not mutual, then whats the point. you can't expect her to drop everything because you like her. you're probably not even the perfect guy for her, or she the perfect girl for you, and you'll probably realise that somewhere down the track. quit being so selfish. if you want her to be happy, then let her choose her own life for herself. and even if she gets hurt from her failed relationship, there are lessons to be learned which will develop her as a person to make her stronger, wiser, etc.
your title is misleading. you're complaining about what you claim is the tendancy of girls to fall for the bad boys. what has that got to do with lying? or being a bitch? your title is only that to attract the attention of people passing by, and therefore, purely for advertising purposes. unreliable. calls us girls what you want, bitches in your typical guy definitions suck. you call anything a bitch. a girl who speaks her mind is a 'bitch', a girl who knows what she wants and tries her hardest to achieve it is also a 'bitch'.
or maybe she doesn't want to be with you because she just hates you and because she thinks you're an inconsiderate loser. and she'd rather date some 'asshole' [who you think is completely not worth it] than to date you. face it, there are some who are unbelievably the perfect partner, while there are those who should go and die. and even then, define perfect partner. you may think you're her perfect partner, she may not.