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matthew91

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Don't worry eventually u'll get over him just try as hard as you can not to think about him.

Most importantly don't let him know that you still want him it will just make him make you feel even more confused.
 
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wow.....

i think my ex actually changed his number??!!

he actually listend to me... quite a shocker... quiet a relief

and also my cut off ==

now im detatched from my ex...

weird feeling.... i dont know if i shuld be sad or be happy ?
 

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Only four months brew, you'll get over it...imagine five years...
sighsigh
 

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watcha gonna do when you cant say no
and the feelings start to show
boy i really need to know

how you gonna act
how you gonna handle that
watcha gonna do when she wants you back
 

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You sound like you have serious issues - maybe you need professional help.
He sounds ridiculously immature.
Why can't people just be sensible and nice. Ugh.
 

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Well if you've deleted and thrown out everything that reminds you of him... next step would be girl time, I suppose. Hang out with your lady friends, go hottie spotting and partying, just have fun. Make out with a few guys if it makes you feel better. Forget about him, you're way better than he is :drink:
 
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Well if you've deleted and thrown out everything that reminds you of him... next step would be girl time, I suppose. Hang out with your lady friends, go hottie spotting and partying, just have fun. Make out with a few guys if it makes you feel better. Forget about him, you're way better than he is :drink:

thanks girl :D

yeah i need a good party... just show these fish in the sea how me and ma galz dooziit :D with the focus on me of course xP

**daydreams**

ahhhhhh parttiesss...... i miss youuu (DAMN YOU BEST FRIEND FOR NOT HAVING YOUR ID NOW WE CANT GO CLUBBING YET!!)
 

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men these days................
we are under 25 so i dont think its justified to use "these days" as a comparison. We just aint that old!

My advice -
find someone new (r r r rrrrebound!) and dont get too attached to relationships... because why? Speaking for myself im not going to marry until like 35 so basically until then im just sussing out the whole deal and what kind of person i like spending time with.
Do not keep compulsively texting the guy. If you still want to maintain some sort of friendship then don't cling on him. I had a girl who did this and it really does taint the waters - it gets a bit weird and freaks you out a bit.
 
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we are under 25 so i dont think its justified to use "these days" as a comparison. We just aint that old!

My advice -
find someone new (r r r rrrrebound!) and dont get too attached to relationships... because why? Speaking for myself im not going to marry until like 35 so basically until then im just sussing out the whole deal and what kind of person i like spending time with.
Do not keep compulsively texting the guy. If you still want to maintain some sort of friendship then don't cling on him. I had a girl who did this and it really does taint the waters - it gets a bit weird and freaks you out a bit.

ahh thanks anyway but im all chilled out now... he changed his number so i have my closure that it over...

hey we mite meet again in like 4 years time in a club... but im not worried at all.. im just ready to party :D:D
 

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i've heard that to get over your ex it takes the whole period of time in which you have dated for to get over them.

so you passed that period of time in which apparently you will get over your ex... for example... you went out with your ex for 4 months and 5 months later you're still not over him?

problem much?

now put into context that you have a compulsive disorder within yourself and you can't stop yourself from calling/ texting your ex's number beacuase you still have feelings for them.

is the only way to stop this to get your ex to change their number so that you have absolutley no contact with them what so ever? or is this just asking for too much?
i went out with this one guy twice and hell, i still ain't over him. lol it depends on the person i reckon.
 

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Depends on who did the dumping

If you, then just reinforce why

If you didn't, I have no idea how long it takes, i've never been dumped :eek:
 

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that is not what he said

maybe he did the dumping

gosh why are you so dumb
 

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you post like a dyslexic 10 year old, it isnt hard to deduct that you are in fact dumb
 

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