yeah, i'd rather just never have a disgusting baby at all. also, i think a cesarean birth is not really necessarily "another option" in normal circumstances... like, don't most good doctors discourage it and only use it as a Worst Case Scenario type thing? :s
normal depressed people* are usually too self-involved to actually write poetry that doesn't inspire nausea, in my experience. it tends to be wafty, sickeningly woeful garbage.
i privately write feminist, beat-poetry.
*obviously excludes sylvia plath, etc.
i think that, for girls, it is much better to do it the first time with someone you totally do not care for and never want to see again. my reasoning? you'll want to fucking castrate and/or murder whoever caused such agonising pain with their stabby penis. that would be a really SHIT way to...
sex doesn't make me love someone, or cause affections to grow, if that's what you're implying. it's all very hateful - hence why i'd never taint any kind of pure love with sex.
because for loads of people sexual attraction/desire and love are totally separate. personally, i can't think of anyone in my life who i love that i'd want to sleep with, and nobody who i would sleep with do i have any sort of feelings of love for.
patti smith - gloria
pj harvey - wang dang doodle
the jam - fever
talking heads - take me to the river
siouxsie and the banshees - helter skelter
shirley bassey - something & the fool on the hill
patrick wolf - running up that hill
amy winehouse - valerie
elton john - pinball wizard
and all of...
it annoys me when boys pay for things, because then i feel obliged to them... and that's just awful. i hate feeling like i owe anyone anything and that i must repay them. it's almost like being a whore!