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tommykins

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Re: Friends with Benefits: Can it ever work?

gigglinJess said:
That being said, I don't wanna take advantage, and I don't want it to affect our friendship if it doesn't work out.

And guys can be goddamn CONFUSING, it isn't always us making it.
say "meh, feeling tad horny", then escalate and say "lets fuck".

it's kinda hard to be serious though, most guys often haev a "is she fucking around with me" shield up.

but yeah, just relay you wnt to fuck =D
 

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ok, in all seriousness now. unless a guy is shallow and womanising he doesnt like a woman to fuck around with him. thats about it. if he's into the whole "lets fuck and be friends thing" then fine. if his attitude isnt like that before or after you have sex then he is not. hm...i just realised i have no idea what he would think. i'm a guy and sex with a random good looking chick always sounds fun but i doubt you could maintain a friendship like that
 

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conics2008 said:
fuck me dead that whore is desperate.

go fuck a horse.
You mean me?
That's not very nice!
I just want some advice before I screw up another good thing in my life!
 

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gigglinJess said:
You mean me?
That's not very nice!
I just want some advice before I screw up another good thing in my life!
i think he was giving you his advice...
 

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gigglinJess said:
Unfortunately horses ain't really my thing.... shame ain't it?
yeah... what about bovine, no... well i guess your screwed then. Dont forget that the horse option is always open should all else fail... oh have you tried 'Surprise Love'????
 

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so how about friends with three-way benefits?

how lucky would a boy be to get that! ;)
 

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that is so unfair because a guy can have a friend with benefits but it's not really applying to girls :\\\\\ can't we be the one to decide that we want the benefits and not the relationship
 

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Norma.Jean said:
that is so unfair because a guy can have a friend with benefits but it's not really applying to girls :\\\\\ can't we be the one to decide that we want the benefits and not the relationship
but how often do we actually come across this?
 

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Been there, done that. The benefits thing was peachy and fun.

He fell for me, it turned into a relationship.

It went awry.

Advice? Be prepared for what you're getting into and don't push it. Keep it light and fun and know where the boundries are.
 

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Norma.Jean said:
that is so unfair because a guy can have a friend with benefits but it's not really applying to girls :\\\\\ can't we be the one to decide that we want the benefits and not the relationship
no, that's very wrong.
mine and the girlfriend's BFWB loves us much more than we him. boys are babies
 

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see thats the problem with the girl iniating it..
the guy will turn it into a relationship
 

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Norma.Jean said:
see thats the problem with the girl iniating it..
the guy will turn it into a relationship
stop generalising kthnx
 

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I've had a friends with benefits relationship for about a year now...

It work's great... and is the best fun ever!!!!

Trust is the key, you need to trust the other person completely. Both in a physical and emotional sense. Cause if your sitting there all the time worrying if they are thinking something more then you will never enjoy it!

So yeh, trust... and the sex will be great!
 

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hmmm if we were to overlay tommykins avatar with Norma.Jean's then we would have a classic case of shoop da whoop and sponge bob would finaly be dead.

I can but dream
 

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Locul said:
hmmm if we were to overlay tommykins avatar with Norma.Jean's then we would have a classic case of shoop da whoop and sponge bob would finaly be dead.

I can but dream
Genius. Provide link to bigger pic and I will shoop it.
 

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