ur_inner_child said:"I believe I will find my true love"
FACTS:
- Love is a construct in many ways, through the media, through little valentines cards as a rosey, perfect experience. This is often not true.
- Love is constructed in usually a heterosexual way, sometimes enforcing patriarchy, sexism, racism, depending on the context. The way love is depicted has flaws such as these.
- Love is depicted as "required" and you MUST end up with someone you love.
- How can one believe that they will find their true love without proof? How the hell will one know that you'll find "your true love" No one can see into the future. There is no logic in the belief.
- Love CONTROLS
I hope I don't need to explain to you why I've written this up. It's a BELIEF. Deconstruct as you will, but it doesn't seem to work.
great example...but why are u arguing a belief? u can NEVER get anywhere arguing a subjective view!!! u CAN try to rationalise god, i have tried, got somewhere, but it needs more work. i will post it once i think its good to go. the belief of love is a construct...but this will get u thinking:
using ur analogy, love and faith...are u saying faith too is a construct? becos then i beg to differ... faith is a way of recognising ur place in hte world. u believe that there is sumthing greater...much greater. it IS a construct till u find religion. Religion is a way of making faith work. it organises the ideas into ones that can be apllied to everyday life. from this u may gather that religion too is a construct, but its not...religion bases itself on faith...something that is either the strongest or weakest thing in the world. its strong base (those with weak foundations are easily swayed and thus i discount them from belief) is subjective, but once that is established, logic flows through. u CAN rationalise god's existence...i will get back to u with the proof...just dont dicount that for now...
after god is determined to exist, then ur belief is taken to the next stage via other beliefs in religion.
now that probably doesnt make to much sense, but think about it.